It was 2+ years ago, i remember, when i was told to choose between my family or the least better half. (Of course i am the better half :P) The story involved policeman, family, "guy" and i. See, i thought that was the worst thing that could have happened to anyone in a relationship and i never took the time to think of the alternatives that might have happened thus leading to a different result. Mostly due to my own blindness: "guy" was perfect to me in everyway. I kept making excuses (more like rational reasons since everyone else was irrational to me) that support whatever "guy" was doing. There was verbal abuse going on, and "guy" returned the favour.
The reason I am writing this post is because i heard a heartwarming story today. Although i had doubts about his capability and may still be having them, but what i heard this guy did cleared almost all the clouds. The rule when your other half's family is on your back, is to NEVER FIGHT BACK. If you do, that just prove how much you do not care about his/her relationship with his/her family. That is the WORST that you could have done. This guy, loved the girl with all his heart, hike up to the girl's place and asked her parents for her hand-in-marriage. Girl's father was raging and out of fear, the fear of losing her daughter when she is in such a young age, (20 btw, not too unusual here) hit him. Guy just stood there, because he knew, if he were to fight back, there is no way this relationship could work, if he were to take her and run for it, that would be equivalent to saying goodbye to the parents forever. He wanted neither of that, so he just stood there and got hit bad. After long discussion after the action, parents are trying to accept guy now, i wish them all the best. :)
Well, I have my story too, it didn't end as beautifully as the one mentioned. But im glad it did not. Because it had got me thinking, how blind i was, how selfless or stupid i was for "guy", and it was all vain. Keep telling myself, the right one will come. RIGHT ONE, BETTER GET YOUR ASS HERE BEFORE I BECOME AN OLD HAG! haha.
Next, I will just tell you a little about my past week. :) Prove of my attendance at Hillsong one night conference.
I love camera effects like this! (taken outside clayton monash university campus)
Had subway the same day. *Yum* Just to reward myself for my first year 7 student! :)
Went to a friend's place to sleepover, another example of perfect couple, guy who know and like to ask about every little detail of girl's life.
Lean on me, let me be your rock. Awww......
Lastly, just a little bit of me. :) getting fat much? sighhhhh
~loves~
aiyo. Esther Esther... How now brown cow? ;)
ReplyDeleteYour friend since kindergarden here! :p